“The number one priority that my father had for us to leave was so that his kids could get educated,” said history teacher Eva Urban.
Urban, born in Bratislava, Czechoslovakia in 1975, immigrated to the United States from Czechoslovakia when she was only a few years old.
Although she only has a few scattered memories of leaving her native country, Urban remembers emigrating with several family members including her father, mother, brother, aunt and cousin.
At the time, Czechoslovakia was under a reign of communism. The government could not reward workers with pay raises, so they rewarded them with vacations.
“My father was an engineer, and he was a very hard worker, so he would get these vacations all of the time,” Urban said.
The day that Urban’s family was planning to flee the country, Urban’s father told their other family members that they were going on a vacation.
“He told everyone we were going on vacation to Yugoslavia, and even my mother’s parents thought that we were going to vacation to Yugoslavia. Absolutely nobody knew,” said Urban.
At first, Urban’s mother did not want to go because if she left during the communist regime, she risked never seeing her parents again. Urban’s mother had to choose between being separated from her children or her parents. She chose to flee with her children and husband, but decided to take her younger sister with her.
“Literally two days before we left, my mother told her sister that we were going to escape,” said Urban.
Urban’s aunt also brought Urban’s cousin, Patrick. Her aunt was fleeing an abusive husband.
“My aunt had a much harder time, however, because she was fleeing her husband, who she was not divorced from, and she was taking her child,” said Urban.
Urban’s family looked to black market to get the papers necessary to cross the border. Urban recalled that when she and her family went to cross the border, it was pouring rain, and the man in charge of checking the papers did not want to stand outside in the rain, so he let them go easily.
“I remember my mom being so relieved that we made it through,” said Urban. “The repercussions of trying to escape were incredible.”
Once they crossed the border, Urban’s father declared them to be political refugees under the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights. The family lived in a refugee camp for about six months before applying to immigrate to the United States, Canada and another country in western Europe.
“Because we were fleeing a communist country, which the United States was opposed to at the time, they took us in with open arms,” said Urban.
Upon entering the United States, Urban’s family was adopted by a Slovak family in Colorado. Today, Urban’s parents host other immigrants in their house.
Although Urban’s family was able to make it out of Czechoslovakia and help others do so, her family was persecuted by communists because they left.
“Now I don’t think my family is resentful as much for the fact that they were persecuted by the communists for us leaving, but for the fact that my father had the guts to do it, and they didn’t,” said Urban. “I think my father sets a good example for going out and taking some risks.”
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sdajksdjlk • May 4, 2012 at 10:44 AM
Haha, Ms. Urban is my favorite teacher academically. She makes the information extremely easy to understand by adding her emotions
wildviolet • May 4, 2012 at 10:07 AM
I think her relatives in Czechoslovakia must be happy for her. She's had such amazing experiences, having traveled the world. I really admire her for that.
tg5e4w4 • May 2, 2012 at 7:16 PM
Ahhhh I love Ms. Urban! She has the best stories 🙂 My favorite teacher by far!
great teacher! • May 2, 2012 at 12:09 PM
amazing, a great inspiration!
such a fan • May 1, 2012 at 5:36 PM
ms. urban literally has the best stories ever! one of the best teachers at whs 🙂
Pam Miller • May 1, 2012 at 8:06 AM
Amazing life experience…….thanks for sharing.
historyheraldicbeast • May 1, 2012 at 7:42 AM
ms urban definitely always has the best stories. i'd love to see more features about her, i know she has a lot more cool experiences to share
student1 • Apr 30, 2012 at 11:31 AM
woaaaah ms urban always has something interesting and cool to say